Mediation
In the case of a separation it’s possible for you to discuss financial arrangements and the arrangements for any children you may have, either with your former partner direct, or with the assistance of mediators.
Family mediation can be an effective way of helping to resolve all the practical issues that have to be considered when a marriage or relationship breaks down. It can help you to communicate with your ex partner about the things that matter in a mature and calm way, at a time when you may both be very upset and angry.
How we can help
For some, this type of discussion can seem quite daunting. We can refer you to trained mediators who can assist you throughout the mediation process and we can offer legal advice in support of this to ensure you have a full understanding of your legal position before you enter into any negotiations or reach a final agreement.
Your questions answered
Q - Do I have to go to mediation?
A - No, it's a voluntary process. It is worth considering though as it might assist you and your former partner in resolving a number of issues and this might ultimately save money and avoid delays.
Q - Is mediation free?
A -No, there is a charge, although different organisations have different rates. The mediation service will be able to explain how they charge if you contact them.
Q - If I attend mediation does this mean I don't need a solicitor?
A - Family mediation does not take the place of a solicitor. We recommend that you take advice before and after most meetings so that you can go into the meeting with confidence, and know your legal rights and what a court might do in your circumstances. You can then discuss matters with your former partner without being disadvantaged and in the full knowledge of your legal position.
Q - Can you mediate about finances and children?
A - Yes we can.
Q - What happens if an agreement reached in mediation breaks down?
A - You can either return to mediation for further discussions, or if you feel this will not help, we can advise you as to what other options are available to resolve the issue in question.
